The Denial

"Lucas shrugged.' What same man would want to admit that he's still attracted to the woman who walked out on him? Who withheld the fact that he was a father from him? Well I have admitted it, which means I must be crazy, because there's something on you in spite of myself"
Mans do not admit that attraction goes beyond pain. Once they get hurt, they do want to do anything with whom hurt them. But the fact that the attraction is still there means that they really love them. They convince that they should hate them. People don't realize that love doesn't go away like that.... They see denial as the best excuse.As an example, Lucas first did not admit that he still had feelings for her. When mans are in love, physical attraction does not go first.
 When a man loves a woman
Can’t keep his mind on nothin’ else
He’d trade the world
For a good thing he’s found
If she is bad, he can’t see it
She can do no wrong
Turn his back on his best friend
If he puts her down

When a man loves a woman
Spend his very last dime
Trying to hold on to what he needs
He’d give up all his comforts
And sleep out in the rain
If she said that’s the way
It ought to be


When a man loves a woman
I give you everything I got (yeah)
Trying to hold on
To your precious love
Baby please don’t treat me bad


When a man loves a woman
Deep down in his soul
She can bring him such misery
If she is playing him for a fool
He’s the last one to know
Loving eyes can never see


Yes when a man loves a woman
I know exactly how he feels
’cause baby, baby, baby
I am a man
When a man loves a woman 

From Michael Bolton