Do man really mean what they usually say in a relationship?

                    "The millionaire's marriage revenge" by Amanda Browning
 "Lucas ignored the command and instead turned her hand over in his, beginning a gentle stroking of her palm with his thumb. 'I'm not asking for a commitment this time. We both know you're incapable of that. But what's  a week or two out of the rest of your life, if it will give you your freedom?' he cajoled in that rich dark chocolaty voice which had always melted her resistance and even now sent goose-bumps up her spine"
(p 75)
Lucas asks Sofie for a night so he can get over her. Sofie is mad but at the same time she wants it.
Usually when people are hurt, they say anything that can hurt the person that caused the pain. It doesn't necessarily means that they don't love the person. At any time, they don't mean what they say. Specially women; when they are mad, they say things that could make someone kill himself..Man's think that when they drink and sleep with another women , they can take away the pain.
People have different ways of hilling themselves. Some talks, drink alcohol, commit a suicide, seek revenge etc. Problems come in different forms. They can be so painful that we do crazy things. Some person avoid relationship.